If you hate something so much, why do you watch it? Why keep up with it? If all it does is annoy you, bother you, upset you and you never are satisfied, why do you keep coming back to the topic? Is it all that important?
I've noticed in recent weeks/months/etc that haters keep popping up everywhere. People who will make you feel bad or feel angry about something that you LOVE and that you are passionate about. They are NEVER satisfied, and they are NEVER happy with just leaving a topic alone. Then they pretend like it's just an opinion and it's a free country.
Honestly, opinion went out the window when the bashing occurred. Here is my personal guide to the How To Avoid Being A Hater. Written by Fallon, the Nice Person.
1. If you don't like something, don't make it such a HUUUUUGEEEE Deal! Chances are, not many people care too much if you hate something with your heart and soul. Example. I HATE Lux and Ahsoka's "relationship" in TCW. I ranted and raved about it for one night, but just among my friends who shared similar opinion (this goes into step 2). I didn't however, carry this on for AGES, making a HUGE deal about how much I HATED it to EVERYONE around me.
2. If you KNOW that someone doesn't like something, DO NOT TALK ABOUT IT WITH THEM. Some of my best friends have very different opinions from me. That's cool, it's a free country. You are allowed your first amendment right (this leads into step 3). But if you know something bothers someone, DO NOT BUG THEM CONSTANTLY ABOUT IT. Example. My extremely good friend Tara hates Duchess Satine. I like Satine. So guess what? We don't talk about Satine with each other!!!! To avoid hurt feelings or bashed characters, we simply don't talk about it!!! IT IS THAT EASY. CLOSE YOUR KEYBOARD/MOUTH AND LEAVE THE SUBJECT ALONE!
3. Do NOT abuse your first amendment right. The first amendment states that you have the right to freedom of speech. Yes, that is true, but DO NOT ABUSE THAT RIGHT. Do not blabber on hurting others for no reason. This rule is simple, your opinion is free to be yours, but it is not meant to be law. It is not the only opinion in the world. DO NOT ACT LIKE IT.
4. Feel free to express your opinion, with OTHER PEOPLE IN MIND. This goes with the second step. If someone doesn't like something, DON'T BRING IT UP JUST TO MAKE THEM UPSET. This also goes for if someone likes something. If they like it, and you don't, just let it go!!! Don't make them feel bad by ruining something they LOVE.
Finally, step five.
5. WWJD? What would Jesus do? Was Jesus a hater? I don't think so. I 'm positive. Jesus was a lover. Be like Jesus, love thy neighbor, love thy enemy, give encouragement and support to those around you. Trivial little things that you hate probably don't matter all that much. It's not very important in the grand scheme of things.
One final thought..... don't let haters get you down! You can't fix them or stop them from hating. Hatah's Gon Hate!
Be yourself, love what you do, and don't be a hater. ;)
